Maybe it was easier for Stefan to promise to go if Elena choose Damon because he’s convinced she’ll pick him ? Damon never thought he was part of a choice, we can see it when Elena said that she know she has to choose. Maybe it was harder for Damon to say “I’m going to leave” because deep down he thinks she won’t pick him. (and because he doesn’t want to leave, clearly)
I don’t know but something really bothers me with this line “I will go if she picks you.” by Stefan. I think he wanted to be selfless and prove to Damon that he will respect Elena’s decision. But I DON’T KNOW it’s not right, something is wrong with this idea, damn it.
What do you guys think ?
I think it was pretty selfish, actually. And I prefer Stefan, so I’m not saying that out of hate.
The way I understood the scene, Stefan thinks Elena will choose him, so he wanted to make sure Damon wouldn’t be here to ruin that when it happened. Which is smart, but also shows how insecure he is.
But anyway, I doubt it’ll happen. Even if she chooses one, the other will still stick around. Maybe leave for a couple of episodes, at most.

